Friday, February 13, 2009

surviving entirely on others~

cryptic growth - according to microbial physiology, it refers to the organism that lives or survives on lysis products of lysis cells. Lysis in this context means dead cells, meaning cells that show no growth what-so-ever! I share a similarity with cells that undergo cryptic growth, i depend on others, not so much for the benefits, ie for help with homework, or for money, but more for support, and the major difference between me and those undergoing cryptic growth is that, i rely on LIVING organisms! Entirely!

I realised that as time passes by, as we grow physically i mean, that we seem to lag in some way or another when it comes to mental growth. Okay, i know i may seem like i am not making any sense, but what i'm trying to say is that the age never in the entire world potrays our thinking. I know of 22 year olds who make the most childish and "far beyond thinking" remark, that at times potrays a 12 year old? I am not picking on anyone, nor am i criticising the people around me, but i am being entirely general, focussing on all of us, cause whether we realise it or not, we do face this same problem. We think we're adults, cause we have reached the age, but trust me my loving people out there, when it comes to making rasional decisions and choosing the best approach to a problem, we always fumble! The question is, how adult is your thinking compared to your age?

I also realised that we tend to give better advices to other, but never to ourselves. Agreed? I don't know about you but trust me, i can think rasionally and practically for everyone else on earth, except for myself and those really close to me. Why? Cause i get really sceptical, i worry if the decision made might cause some sort of undesired effect, which could in return damage the relationship i have with this particular person. And if its only involving me, it will decrease my sellf-esteem.Seems simple no? but trust me, nothing has a greater impact than this.

Bottom line is, if we're gonna whine about worries of making mistakes, and if we're gonna punish someone for the mistakes he or she had done, we have proved ourselves to be not as adult as our age shows. Where is the understanding? We make mistakes! Drill that in ur head! No one is perfect! Noted? But... wait up.. there is more...

Mistakes can be prevented. So think... and consult...

Prevention is better than cure in everything else, but when it comes to mistakes, if it has already happened, do not sit and brood over it, but just pick ur butt up that floor, and move on, be happy cause u just learnt a valuable lesson!


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