Sunday, October 07, 2007

friendship?

What we feel when we meet a new person, is like opening a new page of a book. Eager to know what he/she is all about, excited about the wonderful and enjoyable activities we're going to share with one another, and so on. But what we fail to realise is the negative side. Its a 50-50 thing. It could be good, it could be bad. Definitly you open the page thinking and praying for something new and good to happen. That is what i did. That is what i thought i did. But what i failed to realise is that "all good things do come to an end". Nothing stays the way its supposed to be, or nothing will ever be like how it used to be. Similarly the mind and the feelings of a human being.
What we expect of friendship regardless of the time spend or the amount of time we share with each other, is just another form of support. Will there be anyone behind our back? Will there be someone for us to share both our happiness and sadness? That is the question we ask ourselves day by day hoping that every little believe we have in our friendship actually works out. We pray each and everyday for our friends, we hope for the best, we give all we have as a sign of sharing and caring, we are always there by their side, but the question is whether or not they will follow your back when you leave? or will they just leave you alone, while you walk that lonely road?
Whether we realise it or not, our actions, one by one shows how much we believe in friendship. FRIENDS ARE NOT PEOPLE YOU JUST SHARE LAUGHTER AND JOY WITH, AND FRIENDS ARE NOT PEOPLE WHO ARE BENEFITIAL TO YOU. FRIENDS ARE THOSE WHO STAND BY YOUR SIDE, AND KNOW YOUR CAPABILITIES REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE WORLD HAS TO SAY ABOUT YOU. FRIENDS ARE THOSE WHO YOU SHARE ALL YOUR HAPPINESS, SADNESS, WORRIES AND ANGER WITH. FRIENDS ARE THE CLOSEST YOU CAN HAVE TO YOU, WHOM YOU CAN SHARE EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN WITH.
I believe strongly in this proverb: "Friends come and go in life, but only true friends leave footsteps in ur heart".

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